As the sun began to rise on July 27th, 2024, there was a sense of excitement and love in the air at Rustique Barn in Delano, Minnesota. Surrounded by sprawling fields and under a wide-open sky, Erik and Lily were about to embark on one of the most memorable days of their lives. It was a day filled with joy, laughter, and tender moments that reflected the love they share, not just with each other, but with their family and friends.

The day began in the cozy, rustic spaces of Rustique Barn, where Lily and her closest friends and family gathered to start the preparations. There’s something magical about those quiet moments before the whirlwind of the day truly begins, and this was no exception. The morning was filled with the buzz of excited conversation and the occasional burst of laughter. Lily, with her radiant smile and calm demeanor, was the picture of a bride ready to say "I do." As she slipped into her stunning wedding dress, the room was filled with love and smiles. First looks have a way of creating some of the most unforgettable moments on a wedding day. The first of these moments was with Lily’s bridesmaids, who were all lined up, eager to see their friend transformed into a bride. The room erupted in applause and happy tears as Lily made her entrance, her beauty and happiness lighting up the space.

Next, Lily shared a tender moment with her brother, Charlie. The bond between them was evident as they exchanged smiles and words of love and support. It was a quiet, meaningful pause in the day that spoke volumes about their connection and the journey they’ve shared together.

Finally, it was time for Erik and Lily’s first look. The anticipation was palpable as Erik stood waiting, his back turned as Lily approached. When he finally turned around, his face lit up with pure joy. The love between them was so clear, so genuine, that it felt like the world had stopped just for them in that moment. Lily, ever the playful spirit, couldn’t resist trying on Erik’s cowboy hat, twirling around to show off her dress and making him laugh. These moments of lightheartedness and love were just the beginning of what would be a day full of them. Erik and Lily’s three little ones, Maverick, Layla, and Paislee, joined them soon after the first look. Dressed to the nines, they were the picture of cuteness. Seeing their parents on such a special day, and being a part of it themselves, was a memory that they will undoubtedly cherish as they grow older (even if they only remember it through photos😉). The portraits that followed were a blend of elegance and fun. Erik and Lily’s love for each other shone through in every shot, from the tender embraces to the playful moments. The bridal party, full of energy and excitement, brought their own flair to the photos, making for some truly memorable captures. Even though the wind and heat tried to throw a wrench in the plans, nothing could dampen the spirits of this joyful group. As the day progressed, more family started arriving, and it was time for the family formals. These were more than just posed photos; they were a tribute to the love and support that Erik and Lily have in their lives. There were sweet moments with both sets of grandparents, whose presence brought a sense of continuity and love that spans generations. For the grandparents who were watching over them from above, Erik and Lily incorporated framed photos, a touching reminder that they were still a part of this special day. With everyone gathered, it was time for the ceremony. Guests found their seats, and ushers handed out bubbles, hinting at the playful twist that would come at the end of the ceremony. As Erik and Lily stood before their loved ones, sharing their vows, there was hardly a dry eye. Their words to each other were filled with sincerity, love, and a few happy tears that spoke to the deep connection they share. When the time came for the first kiss, the guests blew bubbles, filling the air with a sense of celebration and whimsy that perfectly matched the couple’s joyful spirit. It was a moment of pure happiness, a culmination of all the love and anticipation that had built up throughout the day. After the ceremony, it was time for the reception to begin. The guests made their way upstairs in the barn, where the rustic charm of the venue combined with the personal touches that Erik and Lily had added made for a warm and inviting space. The bridal party made a grand entrance, showing off their best dance moves and striking fun poses, setting the tone for an evening of celebration. The first time Erik and Lily were announced as The Zadows was met with thunderous applause and cheers. There was a palpable sense of joy in the room as everyone celebrated this new chapter in their lives. Before the delicious meal from B’s on the River was served, Lily’s grandpa shared some kind words and led the guests in a heartfelt Grace, adding a meaningful pause to reflect on the significance of the day.

Dinner was a feast to remember, featuring Chicken Breast in Wine Sauce, Pork Loin in Rosemary Sauce, Caesar Salad, Honey Glazed Carrots, Mashed Potatoes and Gravy, and Dinner Rolls. The meal was a delightful mix of comfort and elegance, perfectly fitting for a celebration of this magnitude. After dinner, the speeches began, each one adding another layer of love and warmth to the evening. The Father of the Groom and Best Man Randy, and the Maid of Honor Erica all shared stories and memories that brought laughter and tears to the room. They spoke of Erik and Lily’s journey, their love for each other, and the joy they bring to everyone around them. These speeches were a testament to the couple’s character and the impact they’ve had on those who know them best.

Cutting the cake was another sweet moment, both literally and figuratively. Erik and Lily shared a delicious dessert with their guests, a perfect end to the meal and a symbol of the sweetness that life together brings. The first dances were next for the evening's events. Erik and Lily’s first dance as husband and wife was a beautiful reflection of their journey together—full of love, commitment, and joy. Lily’s dance with her father, Scott, was a touching moment, while Erik’s dance with his mother, Kay, was a moment of pure happiness. Lily and her daughter Paisley also shared a dance to their special song, creating a memory that would be cherished for years to come.

As the sun began to set, the party kicked into high gear. Despite the heat, the barn was filled with music, laughter, and the kind of dancing that only happens when everyone is truly enjoying themselves. The energy was infectious, and it was clear that this was a group that knew how to celebrate. Amidst the dancing, we snuck out for a quick moment of golden hour photos. The soft, golden light of the evening cast a magical glow over the newlyweds, who couldn’t resist sneaking a few kisses and soaking in the beauty of the moment. These photos captured not just the beauty of the evening, but the deep love and connection between Erik and Lily. As the evening turned into night, the party continued. The dance floor was alive with movement, laughter, and the kind of joy that only comes from being surrounded by the people you love most in the world. It was a night that none of us will soon forget—a celebration of love, family, and the beginning of a beautiful journey together.


Cheers to Erik and Lily, and to the many more beautiful moments they’ll share in the years to come with their sweet family. Thanks for letting Jason and I be a part of your day!!

The Vendor Team:

Venue: Rustique Barn

Bride's Dress: David's Bridal

Bridal Accessories: Veil - David's Bridal

Bridesmaid's Dresses: David's Bridal

Groom + Groomsmen's Attire: Pleasant Hills

Invitations/Stationary: Canva

Caterer: B's on the River

Desserts: Coborns

DJ: Total Brian, Music on Demand DJS

Photography: Gracie Ann Photography